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Saturday, 08 March 2008

What are your church services like?

What do children and teens do on Sunday mornings?

What do you teach children?

I've heard that Unitarian Universalists can believe anything they want to. Is that true?

What does a person have to do to join a Unitarian Universalist church?

How are Unitarian Universalist ministers trained?

What is the significance of the flaming chalice, the symbol of Unitarian Universalism?

Since Unitarian Universalists don't have a creed or doctrine, how can one describe a set of beliefs that they hold in common?

What are your church services like?

Services are held each Sunday at 10:30 AM.  They are customarily 60 to 75 minutes long.

Topics are listed in our What’s With UUS newsletter. The readings, hymns, themes, and ideas in our worship services reflect the many sources of wisdom that we honor as Unitarian Universalists: traditional biblical sources, wisdom from the world's religions, the writings of poets and philosophers and social scientists, and most importantly, our own personal experiences in life. Our hymnal, published by the Unitarian Universalist Association, is called Singing the Living Tradition. To learn more about our principles and purpose see What We Believe.

The Liturgy follows a basic protestant format with readings, hymns, a time for all ages story, a moment for prayer or reflection, and a sermon.  Some Sundays afford the opportunity for a “polylog” a shared congregational response to the topic and sermon.  Approximately once monthly we share an intergenerational service that is more story based and welcoming to all ages.

Dress is informal from dress shirts and skirts to jeans.

Greeters will meet you at the door to welcome you and give you an order of service.  At your first visit you will be asked if you would like to fill out a visitor information form that requests your preferred contact information.

The Character of our services is welcoming, energized and life affirming.  We deal with topics that directly affect our lives in ways that are open and honest – affirming the inherent dignity of all people and respecting a diversity of religious pursuits. 

More on our Worship Services: Our minister, Rev. Anya Sammler-Michael, leads most Sunday services. These services usually follow what many think of as the traditional Protestant worship format: readings, hymns, prayer/meditation, sermon, response. Sermon topics vary widely but all address the spiritual needs of the gathered community. Rev. Anya may talk about our UU history and tradition, a contemporary social issue, or personal spiritual growth and transformation. Past sermons are available on this web site in text and audio form in the Sermon Archive.

Some Sundays we have guest speakers or lay leaders from our own community in the pulpit. Our Worship Associates are responsible for organizing services when the minister is not in the pulpit. They also help establish the philosophy, priorities, and plans for our worship services. Often we have services that are music-filled, with contributions from our many talented UUS musicians and singers.Table with Chalice

No matter who preaches the sermon, some elements of the service remain the same every week; our own precious rituals. We always begin our services by lighting the chalice, a symbol of religious freedom. We make time in every service to share spoken personal joys and sorrows, and during our Offertory people have an opportunity to light silent candles of hope, memory, and gratitude. We close every service by joining hands and saying together these words:

“This church is dedicated to the proposition that behind all our differences and beneath all our diversities, there is a unity that binds us together and makes us one, in spite of time and death and the space between the stars. We pause now in silent witness to that unity.”  - Rev. David Bumbaugh

What do children and teens do on Sunday mornings?

Children of all ages are welcome to stay in the service with an adult. Parents or guardians should consider the appropriateness of the topic and the ability of the child to sit through the service. During the service every Sunday we staff a nursery for children ages four and under. We also run a Religious Exploration (RE) program for children and teens. Children's RE classes meet during the worship service, unless the service is specifically designated as intergenerational. Intergenerational services take place approximately once a month and are welcoming to all ages. A youth group for teens in high school meets during the worship service approximately twice a month.

When visiting us, we ask that you introduce your child to her or his class leader before the service. Children stay with their families until after the Story for All Ages. At that time class leaders and assistants escort children to their classrooms. To find out more about what children can expect on Sunday mornings and procedures followed at UUS, see Children's RE Program.


What do you teach children?

Children explore a variety of topics in RE, including world religions and the application of Unitarian Universalist principles to everyday life. Children and teens gain an understanding of themselves and their place in the world, build community together, develop a sense of responsibility to others and to the world, and learn respect for other religions and cultures.

Parents are a child's first and most important teacher. We encourage you to share your own beliefs and values with your children and talk about how your ideas have changed over time. Also, frequently discuss the topics introduced in the worship service and in RE classes. 

I've heard that Unitarian Universalists can believe anything they want to. Is that true?

No. One would not be considered a Unitarian Universalist if they held that adherence to a specific docterine or creed is necessary for access to God or Truth or spirituality or for membership in our congregations.

In addition it is adverse to Unitarian Universalist values to believe that God favors any group of people based on any inherent qualities, such as skin color, gender, sexual orientation, physical ability, etc.—or that any group of people is more worthy of access to opportunities than any other as a result of these qualities.

We don't believe that autocratic, undemocratic or overly hierarchical systems are appropriate methods of organizing our congregations or the larger society.

We don't believe that humanity has the right or moral authority to exploit the environment or other life forms with whom we share this planet[1].

What does a person have to do to join a Unitarian Universalist church?

Making the decision to become a member of the Unitarian Universalists of Sterling has both spiritual and practical implications. 

Spiritually speaking the decision implies that you are committed to the principles and values that Unitarian Universalism embraces.  It is a public affirmation that you stand with a group of people who are determined to live out their faith in the world.  And it is a spiritual commitment to an ever-evolving process of self discovery and growth. 

Practically speaking the decision enables you to become a participant in the democratic processes of the congregation – specifically voting on important decisions such as the budget, or a plan to purchase a new building, or to call a new minister. 

Publically speaking the decision is a public commitment to support the values and principles of our Unitairian Universalist faith. 

The Unitarian Universalists of Sterling have developed a Membership Covenant to express the specific commitment to membership that our congregation expects.  In addition they have drafted a Path to Membership to help new visitors become aquainted with the congregation as well as the Unitairan Universalist Faith.  We hold an Inquirer’s Class after church the first Sunday of each month, and hold a “New UU” class and New Member ceremony each quarter for those wishing to join the church – you can search our calendar for those events.

How are Unitarian Universalist ministers trained?

Technically, our congregations are free to call whomever they wish to be ministers of their communities. However, almost all our churches select from a group of ministers that have been approved by the Ministerial Fellowship Committee of the UUA. To obtain approval from this committee, ministers must have earned a Masters of Divinity degree from an accredited theological school, completed a year of supervised ministerial internship, read over 30 books from a required reading list, completed a course of clinical training in pastoral care, and met a number of other requirements before interviewing in front of the committee itself.

There are two specifically UU seminaries in the United States: Meadville/Lombard Theological School in Chicago and Starr King School for the Ministry in Berkeley, CA. Some of our ministers graduate from other seminaries that are non-denominational. Both Harvard Divinity School in Cambridge, MA, and Andover Newton Theological School in Newton, MA, have sizable numbers of Unitarian Universalists enrolled in their programs.1

What is the significance of the flaming chalice, the symbol of Unitarian Universalism?

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The flaming chalice is made up of two archetypes—a drinking vessel and fire. The chalice represents sharing, generosity, sustenance, and love, among other interpretations. The flame symbolizes witness, sacrifice, testing, courage, illumination and more.

The origin of the symbol comes from the Unitarian Service Committee. The USC was founded during World War II to assist war refugees who needed to escape Nazi persecution. Artist Hans Deutsch drew the flaming chalice in 1941 so that the USC could have it as a symbol for official documents.

The director of the USC, Charles Joy, wrote this about the symbol when it was first drafted:

“It represents, as you see, a chalice with a flame, the kind of chalice which the Greeks and Romans put on their alters. The holy oil burning in it is a symbol or helpfulness and sacrifice. . . . This was in the mind of the artist. The fact, however, that it remotely suggests a cross was not in his mind, but to me this also has its merit. We do not limit our work to Christians. Indeed, at the moment, our work is nine-tenths for the Jews, yet we do stem from the Christian tradition, and the cross does symbolize Christianity and its central theme of sacrificial love.”

Today, the flaming chalice is the official symbol of the UUA. It also functions as the logo for hundreds of congregations. It is also a part of worship in many congregations—services often begin by lighting a chalice while saying some brief reflective words.1

Since Unitarian Universalists don't have a creed or doctrine, how can one describe a set of beliefs that they hold in common?

Unitarian Universalists often describe their commitment to their religion as a commitment to living their faith in the world.  For UUs it matters more what you do than how you specifically state your beliefs.  For example a UU might find powerful lessons for promoting justice and compassion in the teaching of both Jesus and Buddah.  Similarly they may find revelation in the Bible, the Koran, the poetry of Emerson, the ideas of Copernicus … the list goes on.

As a result an integral aspect of UU community is the commitment to shared learning.  At the Unitarian Universalists of Sterling our Adult Education Classes, Covenant Groups, Small Groups and worship services provide the space to share ideas and beliefs.  We hold that a free and responsible exchange of ideas promotes spiritual self-discovery and guides us toward the work of healing our world.

Once such free and responsible search engaged a large body of Unitarian Universalists in the development of our Principles.  Our Principles are a list of values and practices affirmed by Unitarian Universalists.

There are seven principles which Unitarian Universalist congregations affirm and promote:

1.      The inherent worth and dignity of every person;

2.      Justice, equity and compassion in human relations;

3.      Acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations;

4.      A free and responsible search for truth and meaning;

5.      The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large;

6.      The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all;

7.      Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.



[1] Marshall Hawkins “UU Frequently Asked Questions”

 

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